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BobGorman
27-03-2008, 11:43 PM
This 'used to be' my Clean Forum.

I've been a member of this forum since 2004. Also in October 2004, I took a 2 week intensive training from Penny, James, and Wendy also joined us. One of the the things that struck me was their openness, their willingness to share, not just vague concepts, but the nitty, gritty techniques of HOW to implement those concepts. It seemed then, and still does, that this openness attitude flowed down from David Grove.

From 2004 till a few months ago, ironically since David died, this forum was a delightful place to be. When I logged on, I expected to be surprised, enlightened, and fascinated, and it never let me down. Yes, some months were slower than others, but when activity arose, I was as I said, surprised, enlightened, and fascinated.

But since January 2008, mostly I've been bored!
What used to be a widely diverse discussion of the many facets of David's works and the many developments and enhancements of Penny, James, Wendy, and others, it seems, in my opinion, to have been hijacked. It's now more of a personal blog of Steve Saunders, where he expresses an opinion, and others reply, the essence of a blog.

I WANT THE ORIGINAL FORUM BACK!

I could end this post here, that would be the 'safe' thing to do.

But I will pursue 2 more topics.
Hopefully this will generate more light than heat, but if they generate more heat, I can live with that. These 2 topics seem to be the essence of the discussion over the last few months.

Topic 1. Openness vs Secrecy.
Topic 2. What is Dangerous?

Topic 1. Openness vs Secrecy.
In the thread - How much 'how-to'?
Phil wrote:
In a post in Emergent Knowledge forum, Steve says
Quote:
Scaling, by the way, is what he [David] asked me not to teach, so it will stay off the forum in terms of process and content.


Since David is now dead, I have no way of verifying if this was ever said, and if it was, in what specific context it was said.

I've read David's books, and received training in the fruits of David's thoughts through 2 weeks training with Penny, James, and Wendy. I've also read, analyzed, and implemented almost all the the many articles on the excellent clean language website.
Never, ever, anywhere there did I detect the slightest hint of secretiveness, of a feeling that some particular technique was 'dangerous'.

Topic 2. What is Dangerous?
My personal opinion is that dangerous is something you haven't trained yourself for. Let me give a few examples of why I think this way:

1. Soaring - I love to fly gliders, planes without engines. Is this 'dangerous'?
Well, without training, it certainly would be. But after about 25 lessons, I no longer consider it dangerous at all.

2. Going to the moon - Dangerous? most people might said so. But I worked on that project, putting some of the guidance equations into the craft, enabling them to both reach the moon, and more spectacularly return safely to earth. Again, training reduced the danger. But in the final end, Courage won over Danger.

3. Bomb demolition - most people would say this is a dangerous occupation. But again, with training, few people are killed.

4. Scissors & Knives - This is more personal. One of the few things my ex-wife & I agreed on, while raising our 5 children, was that none of them would ever use a plastic scissor. We waited till they were ready to handle a sharp scissor, then taught them how to use it safely, and let them grow. Likewise on knives. I always had sharpeners available so every knife in the house was razor sharp. I consider one of the most dangerous tools to be a 'dull' knife. It can slip, slide, jump, etc. and wind up cutting you rather than the item you wanted to slice.
Surgeons use extremely sharp knives!

5. Psychotherapy -
Are clients fragile?, in need of some, boundary crossing therapist, to take over and run their lives?
Or are they resilient, occasionally needing some assistance, but basically strong?

You decide.

Bob

Steve Saunders
28-03-2008, 09:18 PM
I will no longer post; if Phil wishes to delete my posts, then fine, I've already offered to delete them.

Corrie van Wijk
29-03-2008, 08:23 AM
No Steve, you shouldn't!

Let me explain the context of this:

1. Shortly after David died, Phil decided to open a new section on the forum about Emergent Knowledge. David started a pilot on clean coaching using emergence with Carol Wilson in 2005 and they wrote an article about it, which was published in Resource Magazine (see www.Cleanlanguage.co.uk).
2. From there he worked in 2005 en 2006 with Steve to develop it further. Steve being an expert on chaotic systems, but also a trained NLP'er, he could bridge the two fields. David learned a lot from Steve and he regretted it very much having to separate, for reasons they both have a different story about.
3. David was reluctant to (have me) publish about Emergent Knowledge, because he thought it was still in an experimental stage.
4. When Phil started the EK section I mailed him there might be a trademark on it, but Carol said that that was a misunderstanding. Still, there are author's rights, both from Steve and David involved.
5. After David had died, Steve volunteered to share publicly his knowledge about EK, which he did. Phil, John and I have questioned him about that with the purpose of making things clear and separate his (world)views from David's.
6. Even if Steve's contributions are sometimes difficult to read, there is a lot of useful information in it. So if you do not understand, keep asking.
7. Steve and I will meet in Sangatte (near Calais) on April 11-13 to discuss further issues, perhaps also those we rather not discuss on the forum.
I would welcome anyone else, since my purpose is to reconcile possibly different views on emergence. So anyone who knows anything about it, please come, or mail me your input.

phil
29-03-2008, 04:35 PM
Steve, Bob: what would you like to have happen?

super_yacht@hotmail.com
30-03-2008, 10:19 AM
WILTHH....
I'd like to see lots of input from various people. Persoanlly i appreicate Steve downloading, while it does look a bit like his blog. Is this becasuse there is hardly anyother people active here?
Also people tend to shy away from putting stuff on forums if they are likely to be attacked, so i think we should remember what we write can be offensive or off putting to some.
back later

BobGorman
30-03-2008, 05:42 PM
Phil,
You asked: What would I like to have happen?

I guess what I'd LIKE to have happen;
is what I'm MAKING happen today.

My Sunday mornings here in Nashua, NH, USA are mostly spent watching weekly news shows on TV. Unfortunately, right now there's no real news happening. On the political front we have a few candidates for the presidency who are acting more kids brawling on a school yard. They take turns being Bully and Victim, while the media, pretending to be Rescuers are actually pouring gasoline (petrol) on the fires! The next meaningful news event is the election in November. Between then and now, it's mostly static and noise, with virtually no content.

So, shortly, I'll turn the TV and my computer off and listen to some music. About 16 months ago I discovered an amazing new group of young ladies that absolutely, head over heals, captured me, all of me; my heart, my head, and my whole spirit. It's 4 singers, a fiddler, and David Downes, the composer, director, & producer of their events. I believe David's an absolute magician of human chemistry. Each of the singers and the fiddler have been solo stars, in their own right, and cut their own albums. In our Hollywood, it would virtually impossible to get a group like this on the same stage, at the same time, without a brawl breaking out. So many of our popular singers would be spending most of their time and energy trying to grab the whole stage for themselves.

But David makes that personal harmony happen. Each of the young ladies does a few solo songs, then sing in groups of 2, 3, 4, and even all 5! In one of the songs, the 4 singers, Chloe, Lisa, Mauv, and Orla, are in like a ring and rotate so each has center stage for part of the song. The fiddler, Mairead bounces in and out and all around them, but most of the time is in back of them. Mairead is much shorter than the others, being only about 5 feet tall. She does half of her solo's barefoot, and the other half in high heels. In my 67 years I've never figured out how women can even walk in high heels, never mind run and swirl, and leap!

The DVD I have "A New Journey", has extra tracks of them during practice. Even then, there is no in-fighting, just mutual respect and cooperation.

I think just before starting the 'Celtic Woman' DVD, I'll go out and get my favorite dish - Sushi. They have a Rainbow platter which has about 5 different types of fish each with it's own brilliant color, texture and distinctive taste. Heat up a little Japanese Sake, and I'm looking forward to making a great day.

Life just doesn't much better than this!

Bob

Corrie van Wijk
31-03-2008, 09:02 PM
Bob: "When I logged on, I expected to be surprised, enlightened, and fascinated, and it never let me down."

We would very much welcome to be surprised, enlightened and fascinated by your contributions as well.

Bob: "Each of the young ladies does a few solo songs, then sing in groups of 2, 3, 4, and even all 5!"

I'm sure Steve would be delighted to have two, three, four or even five people join in (there will be five at least in Calais).

Bob: "I guess what I'd LIKE to have happen;
is what I'm MAKING happen today."

And when you are making happen what you like to have happen, what would you make happen for this forum?


John: "Also people tend to shy away from putting stuff on forums if they are likely to be attacked."

Watch me, I'm still growling!

super_yacht@hotmail.com
31-03-2008, 09:10 PM
Thats great Corrie 5 in Calais, pity they dont contribute here, are they also going to decide what goes on this forum?
Or maybe its because they dont want to be growled at?? :(

Corrie van Wijk
31-03-2008, 09:40 PM
don't worry, I'll only eat fruits de mer

Nobody is going to decide for anybody else what to put on the forum or not, so anybody who doesn't show up will miss out on my story of how a solution to a problem emerged from my eating fruits-de-mer in Calais and how I ended up in Wales.